Monday, March 7, 2011

A Lack of Civility?

I recently came across this post and wanted to share it.  The gist of the article is that there needs to be Rules of Civil Political Disagreement.  Over the past twenty five years or so of both political activism and elective office, I have seen the "good, bad and ugly" when it comes to public discourse.  The worst tend to be annoymous commenters to blog posts who lose nothing by calling people names that I doubt they'd say to the persons face.  Any way-here it is....what do you think?

The Rules of Civil Political Disagreement
In a recent Facebook exchange, the Collins Center’s Tony Carvajal and I were bemoaning the lack of civility in modern political discourse. I suggested that what’s needed now is a Hoyle’s for Civility that outlines what’s fair and what scores below the belt.

I invite everyone who is tired of the current climate of rhetorical distortion and hate politics to weigh in and suggest what the Rules of Civil Political Disagreement should be. Here are a few thoughts to get us started:

1. Attack the position, not the person.
2. Don’t raise a charge without
proof.
3. Don’t attack someone’s family.
4.
Don’t label, ie. by suggesting someone is only taking a position because he is in the pocket of a nefarious influence, such as a lobbyist, insider or “special interest” or is himself a closeted evildoer, such as a liberal, socialist, communist, religious fanatic, gun nut or tree-hugger.
5. Don’t turn an alleged behavior into a
character flaw. As I frequently remind my children, you can say your brother lied but you cannot call him a liar. This suggests he is so accomplished at the vile behavior as to be defined by it.
6. Never incite
violence.
7. Don’t question motives. Let the facts speak for themselves (but make sure the facts are correct.)
8. Avoid
straw man arguments, ie. because you disagree with Obamacare, you don’t care if people have no health insurance OR if you question defense spending you are against national security.
9. Avoid ad hominem attacks, that is raising an irrelevant fact about a person to discredit an argument, ie. what do you expect from a
career politician?
10. Under no circumstances call someone a
Nazi.
RonSachs Communications

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Does anyone say "thank you" anymore?

Does anyone say thank you anymore?

Whether it’s the gas station, grocery store or McDonalds, I have noticed that fewer clerks and sales associates say “Thank you”.  If I am lucky, I may get a “have a good one” but often times I just get my change and am sent on my way.

Having worked in retail and customer service type positions since I was fourteen, I have always thanked people.  Heck, I once thanked a cop after he gave me a ticket-perhaps it was an automatic response to receiving something-but nonetheless you get the idea.

Lately I have taken it upon myself to say “you’re welcome” after I receive my change.  Oops the clerk never said “thank you” but then again they seem oblivious to their oversight.

Which leads me to ask-are people just that ungrateful or are they ignorant of common manners like saying “please and thank you” and holding doors open?  I know I correct my children when I observe them commit these “oversights” but then again, it is not just young people that fail to appreciate a customers investment in their place of business.  How can we expect young people to know how to conduct themselves if their parents don’t do so?

Perhaps those who fail to say thank you feel that they are being taken advantage of by their employer but taking it out on the customer only hurts the employee in the end.  If the business suffers - it’s usually the employee who becomes expendable not the owner.  And if that owner is some national conglomerate good luck in sending that message!

I work hard for money and it would be nice to hear that my business is appreciated.  On the flip side, if I get good service, it is incumbent that I too thank that person for the service that I received.

Thanking someone is a common courtesy that we all should be in the habit of doing.

Saturday, December 18, 2010

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Welcome

Aniin!  Welcome to my blog.

For some time, friends have been encouraging me to write a blog so I finally relented.  Though this forum, I hope to share an assortment of thoughts- sometimes personal, sometimes random and hopefully always thought provoking.  Topics may include leadership, politics and culture.  So sit back, enjoy and stop by often.